Year: 2024

This ‘blazer’ is one of my favorite items of clothing — so much so that even given the pricing (roughly $1,000), I own three of these blazers and still want more. If you look at this blazer online before you read about it, you’ll likely not get what makes it so great — you’ll be distracted by what looks like a rather traditional blazer.

But that’s a mere illusion. A part of the magic of what makes the Sid Mashburn Ghost Blazer so amazing to wear is that it looks pretty normal, while wearing exceptionally well.

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When I am sitting and having dinner with my family, and a notification comes in to my iPhone, it instantly pulls me away from my time with family. To counter this I started to put my phone on DND. This worked like a charm, except then I would forget to turn it off, or in cases when I was out on a date night with my wife, miss important messages from my kids or other family.

That was not working, so I wanted to craft a mode on my iPhone to help me direct my focus back to the people physically near me, while at the same time keeping my phone in a state where I could use it and get important notifications. (Side note: seems like iOS 18 is really going to help with this, I look forward to that in a few months.)

I also wanted this mode to be easily activated by using the otherwise useless Action button on the side of my phone.

That’s how I ended up with my new ‘Attention Mode’.

My Goal

Here’s what I wanted:

• Notifications only from family.
• Notifications only from apps which tend to be urgent.
• A worse phone experience so as to not get sucked into the phone when I do respond.
• Nothing glowing unless needed.
• Applicable in any setting where I need to pay attention better.

The Action

I found that I could do about 95% of this in the Focus mode setting alone, but I had to move to Shortcuts to get the last 5%. So I actually trigger the Focus mode and one more setting change by using a Shortcut, which is assigned to the Action Button on my iPhone 15 Pro.

Here’s what the Focus Mode does:

1. Restricts notifications to only selected people (in my case, my wife, kids, and immediate family) via the “Allow Notifications From” setting.
2. Restricts notifications to only a select grouping of apps. This took a bit for me to work through, and I regularly change it, but right now the ‘Allow Notifications From’ for apps is only: August (smart lock), Calendar, CARROT, FaceTime, Find My, Home, Messages, ParkMobile (parking timer and payments), Phone, Reminders, Signal, Uber, United, and Wallet.
3. No scheduling or smart activation — this gets activated manually.
4. Focus Filters: filter calendars to only my personal and family calendars (this gets rid of holidays and anything else you’ve subscribed to); Always On Display set to ‘Turn Off’ (now your screen is off when the mode is on); Silent Mode set to Turn On (keeping my want for the silent switch intact).

Now we head over to Shortcuts, here’s what that looks like:

Walking through what this is doing:

1. Looks at which focus is currently set, and if the current Focus Mode is ‘Attention’, it turns that mode off, and turns off my color filters.
2. If ‘Attention’ is not the current focus, then it sets Attention to the current focus until it is turned off again, and it turns on my color filters.

The key here is what the color filters do. iOS has a lot of options you can do to improve accessibility, and we can use some of those to change the overall system as well — one of those options is color filters. You can tint the entire system to have a particular color overlay, or make the entire thing grayscale. For example, red is useful if you want a night mode, and it looks awful at the same time, but no more blue light. Grayscale removes all color, and actually looks quite pretty, while keeping the phone very useful.

If you want some night vision preserving mode, then red is the way to go. Otherwise, Grayscale. And here I simply have mine triggering Grayscale. The only way I know to do this, is to do it in Settings:

• Open Settings
• Search “Color Filters”
• Tap Color Filters
• Turn Color Filters on, and then select Grayscale
• Turn off Color Filters

That will set your color filter to Grayscale when Shortcuts toggles it on or off.

Now you got to Settings > Action Button, and select your new Shortcut as the action. It should turn on your Focus and set Grayscale.

Outcome

It’s really clean, and works wonders. I used to flip my phone face down on the table, or keep it in my Hardgraft sleeve as a way to stay focused. But I constantly faced issues of missing things which are the very reason I carried my phone with me. Parking meter expirations, Uber Eats driver questions, texts from my kids — by using this Attention Focus, I don’t miss anything, while limiting my distractions.

There’s something really uncanny and great about a grayscale iPhone display. You get all the utility of your phone, but in a way in which it doesn’t suck you in as readily. To be fair, you can still get lost in it. Grayscale very odd, and I very much like it.

Last Tip

There is the occasional glitch where the Always On Display will not resume after leaving the Attention Focus mode. This happens maybe 5% of the time, but it’s annoying. Theoretically you only need to tell Attention to turn off Always On Display since you have it set to on at the primary OS level, but because of this glitch, I also explicitly set Always On display to turn on in my Personal focus mode. Thus if I see that it’s not staying on, I can quickly toggle to Personal Focus and it resolves itself.

Ok, one more thing: if you screenshot in grayscale mode, the screenshot is full color.

My Dopp kit and I have been having a love and hate relationship. I’ve been carrying the Filson Tin Cloth Travel Kit, which is fantastic in shape and size, but lacking in any organization. All too often I have gear spilling out, and I am unable to quickly find what I need to the point where it feels like I constantly empty the bag out to find the one small thing I wanted.

So I started the search again for a new Dopp Kit, and the Hardgraft Brothers Dopp Kit Duo seemed like it might check all the boxes. Two pouches, both slightly smaller, seem in theory to be a really clever solution — in practice, these two pouches are tantalizingly close, but miss the mark for a cohesive Dopp Kit. They do make excellent add-ons if you can stomach the price.

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Some quick thoughts on Hardgraft’s Small Brick Card Case, which I picked up a while back to hold some overflow cards and cash where it would be living in my briefcase/bags most of the time. I did use this for a couple of weeks as my primary wallet, so I could get a sense of how it works in a more standard use case.

Hardgraft makes many small cases like this, and it’s hard to get a sense of why you might choose one over the other. I could see some loving this as a primary wallet (I would if I didn’t have the Whisky), but I also think it fills my use case perfectly.

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Back in December, my wife gifted me a pair of these R.M. Williams Dynamic Flex Craftsman Boots which I had been drooling over for some time. A perfect gift. The jump from Blundstone to R.M. Williams is akin to the jump from Seiko to Rolex — both great, but you know, there’s an upgrade there.

What I didn’t expect is how comfortable and easy these boots would be, and generally how good they are. So allow me to expand some on that.

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I have already mentioned my love of a good loafer, and while a classic Sperry is a loafer of sorts, it is very much in a class of its own (i.e. Boat Shoe). I was looking for a shoe I could use to replace a sneaker for any given activity outside of sports-related-things. I wanted to look a little more adult, as I was no longer feeling comfortable wearing sneakers.

A boat shoe was the top recommendation which kept coming up for me. I started to look around — you can spend a lot — but the Sperry is the OG if you will. I went with this Boat Shoe, Gold Cup variant with the classic brown leather and a white sole.

I have no regrets replacing my sneakers with these boat shoes.

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